Welcome to this week's issue of Becoming the Powerful Creator You are Meant to Be
What's preventing you from manifesting your deepest desires sooner than later?
In this issue, Kris speaks on the power of choice and intent and to how to power up your manifestations by co-creating with the Universe.
Kalyn gives you some of the common reasons why your desired manifestations haven’t come to fruition.
Let us know if you have any comments or questions. We’d love to hear from you!
It is time to climb into the cockpit, buckle up, set your navigation, hit the throttle, and take off!
You are the pilot of your plane. As the pilot, you don’t push the plane forward, the engines do that. You don’t lift the plane off the ground, the magic of aerodynamics does that. Your job is to choose the direction, navigate and fly the plane.
The same is true in manifesting. You don’t do the creating. Something much bigger and more powerful than you does that. If you want to conceive a child, choosing to have sex is the easiest way to do it. After the sexual act, the magic of the universe takes over. Thank God you don’t have to worry about the actual creation process. It is far too complicated. Your part is easier, and a lot more fun!
However, just as the universe will not create a child for you without you choosing to have sex, it will not manifest your desire without you first choosing it. If you climb into the cockpit of a plane and just sit there, nothing happens. You must choose to start the engines and choose the destination.
There is a difference between wanting something to manifest and choosing something to manifest. The latter engages your intent. Intent is the combination of will and desire. Choose what you desire and engage your will that it will be so. Engaging your will does not require effort. If you are efforting, you are trying to do the universe’s job. By combining your chosen desire and your will, you send your intention out into the universe. The universe then starts doing its job of lining up the probabilities to bring your desire into manifestation.
I knew a woman who was very tuned into her guides. She would often have conversations with them. She believed that surrendering to the will of God was the way. She would constantly say to her guides, “Thy will be done. They will be done.”
One day I met her and she was visibly upset. I asked her what was wrong and she said that whenever she repeated ‘Thy will be done,’ to her guides, they would always answer her back, ‘What do you want?’ She would answer back, ‘I want your will to be done. I surrender to you.’ They would inevitably answer back the same thing, ‘What do you want?’
Surrender is important, but you still need to know what you desire and choose it. When asked, what do you really desire, many people say I don’t know. Or they respond with a surface desire that changes the next time you ask them. If you don’t set the direction of the plane, where will it fly? If you don’t know what you desire, how will the universe manifest it?
Be clear in what you desire. Choose it and set your intent that it is so. A good pilot clearly tells the plane where to go and takes the aligned actions that enable to plane to do its job, to fly to the destination. As the pilot of your life, your job is to be clear in what you desire, to choose the desire, and to set your intention that it manifests. It is the universe’s job to bring it into creation. Do your part and the universe will do its part. This is the magic and power of co-creation.
Why Your Manifestation Hasn’t Come
The Most Common Reasons It Hasn’t Come
My teachers said that everything you experience comes from you and that life reflects your energy back to you, like a mirror, an illusion. This fits, when I shift my energy, things change. When I raise my energy, things come more easily. Ok, so my energy is creating my experience.
If it’s my energy, where’s my manifestation?
If I’m a powerful creator that can make all my problems without trying, all the beauty in life and all the other things that are in my every day — then where is the thing I’m wanting to manifest?
Sound Familiar? What’s Keeping Your Manifestation From Showing Up?
I was working with my Wednesday Flow & Surf group — where we seek to raise our frequency. Doing so improves your experience and helps you manifest. However, I could see that everyone was having difficulties. Instead of being able to be in their power place — the now moment or being in The Observer- they were teathered to ‘things’ energetically and unable to clear a path for their desires to come.
If Your Desire Hasn’t Shown Up, What Can You Check For To Clear The Path To You?
Here are a couple of the manifestation issues that came up:
One of my practitioners told me that she’s getting contacted by recruiters for the new job she wants, but she wants a certain location or to work remotely and that isn’t happening. She is attracting job possibilities, but not the one she wants. Why?
Another practitioner said that he’s growing his business, but not bringing more money home. He’s attracting half of what he wants- how does he not have more money to bring home?
I’m not sure what’s worse, not attracting what you want at all or manifesting it ‘wrong’ so that it feels like you are being teased. You can’t say you got nothing, but it misses the mark and doesn’t make you happy.
“ONCE YOU MAKE A DECISION, THE UNIVERSE CONSPIRES TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.” — RALPH WALDO EMERSON
So why are you either not manifesting or missing the mark? Are you too tethered?
Emerson says the universe is helping you, so now help yourself ‘unteather!’
The Usual Reasons You Aren’t Manifesting:
1. You Are Looking Outside Yourself
We often expect that job to come to us when we meet the right person or apply for the right job. However, this means that we are expecting a mirror to conjure up our dream job!
Life is a mirror. It is reflecting you, the self. To change life, the reflection, you must change self so that the mirror reflects what you desire back to you. Mirrors reflect, they don’t conjure energy.
Make sure that you don’t expect something outside of you to grant your wish. Instead, understand that you must conjure the energy and activate it in you.
Do this and then the mirror will reflect that to you- this is when the universe uses things, like a friend’s connection, to bring you the job.
2. You Hold Limiting Beliefs
I’m sure you’ve heard that you must believe you deserve that dream job or relationship. However, until you work with your subconscious, one of the challenges is that people hold a lot more beliefs than they realize. It’s not until they flow* their energy and their experience that they find the beliefs they hold subconsciously.
Work with yourself, learn to flow your energy. It is relaxing, can require courage, but always leaves people uplifted, more aware and raises their frequency a little at a time.
* Flowing your energy: To do so, you 1) welcome your experience, 2) let it be with you and 3) let it go (or flow away). Doing this allows you to raise your frequency because you are not holding onto an experience. It also puts you in the now moment and helps you work with energy.
3. Out Of The Flow, Not Matching The Energy Of What You Want
Have you ever tried taming an animal? You can’t grab at them or push them away, they wont trust you and come to you. Instead, you have to be interesting so that they want to come to you and connect.
Energy is basically the same. If you want a new relationship really, really badly, it won’t come. You are grasping at it. This universal principal is based on flow. You can’t push, pull, grasp or repel the flow.
If you find that you are out of the flow, you won’t manifest. Instead, you need to flow your energy* (defined above) to empower your point of attraction.
4. You Are Trying To Control How It Manifests- Mixed Signals
The universe knows more than you do and manages far more. Control issues are a form of being out of the flow because you are trying to hold onto or figure out how things will manifest for you. You can’t make things happen; you can only align yourself to the energy of your manifestation, thus allowing it to come.
Let go of trying and controlling. Look to your own experience. You manifest unwanted problems all of the time, so you know you manifest. To manifest what you want instead of what you don’t want, let go. You don’t try to manifest problems, and look at how easily they come!
Decide to trust (or work on your lack of trust) that your desire will come and that the universe knows how to bring it to you.
5. You Aren’t Holding It In Self
Think about someone you love. They are always in your heart, in your thoughts. You hold them here but you don’t obsess over them or try to hold a larger space in your heart for them. You just hold a sweet and special space for them.
Do the same with your desire. Hold your desire manifest in your heart without pushing or pulling. Just enjoy it. As you go about your day, come back to your heart’s desire and then go back to focusing on your day. This allows you to activate the energy and to let it go too, so that you are in the flow with it and it will help you align to it.
6. You Don’t Spend Enough Time In Now- Living In The Past Or Future
Your power lies in you. If you ask a physicist, they will tell you that the past and future don’t exist. Even the now moment is fluid.
If you are focused on the past or future, bringing old problems or worries into your now moment, you are placing yourself outside your own power. If your past hurt or future worries are affecting your energy and behaviors, you are being inauthentic (since you are reacting to the non-existent past and future).
This is one reason meditation is so powerful. As you focus on your breath and let your thoughts and feeling go, you come to your point of power. You start to connect with something deeper, your Observer. Your ‘true’ self. You can also say that you place yourself in existence.
Spend time meditating or focusing on your current experience (which you also do when you flow your energy). Without trying, you will make room for your manifestation to come, you will attract it.
The universe is unlimited. This is a list of some of the most common ways people often impede their own manifestation process.
Learn to flow your energy.
It feels good and raises your frequency.
By flowing her energy, the participant looking for a new job said that the job at the wrong location is starting to change: they may allow remote work.
This is what happens. Things that seem set, solid and unchanging become liquid, fluid and become more of what you prefer as you change. You change by being you, by flowing your energy and raising your frequency.
I love saying that my greatest manifestations, my marriage, my exotic parrots, my wonderful daughter, all happened effortlessly. I’ve tried- I can’t make things happen, or they take a great deal of time and effort and don’t upkeep themselves.
Effortless manifesting is the only manifesting for me. It allows me to manifest many things with ease and joy- when I clear a path for the manifestation.
Yep, I thought I wanted things to happen in my outside world , and I really would love few things happening in my outside world but , it doesnt work as long as my inner world is mixed with walls and denial etc .. At least I am starting to be aware of my self , picture by picture , and if it takes 1000 years , so be it .. And yes , when I realized people do not know what they want , I started to see this with me too , and I was surprised , that when someone has lots of guilt ( like me ), they dont want more than nothing . A good awareness probably is to start what we dont want. Good post about whats keeping me posted on my walls